Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Men are complicated

All you women out there; does it ever occur to you how complex and complicated MEN could be?

Perhaps we hear many people say (specially the male folk, Duh!) that men are much more silent and sensible than women. But do you realize that there is just more that mere silence and sensibility when it comes to Men? To put it in simple words, they are just C.O.M.P.L.E.X humans!!
I read this article somewhere; which said
"Men are more complex than a touch screen on a mobile"

Never can they think straight; however claim to be more pragmatic than women (RUBBISH!)
Some of them contradict their own statement; set double standards and finally get away with it only on the pretext that they are MEN!!

Women are possessive; Agreed!!
Are men possessive? They ABSOLUTELY are but in a slightly different way!

Women love their partners to be understanding and caring. She loves it when her partner adores they way she is, gives her a lot of attention, send her gifts, give her surprises, and above all ...Every woman loves to be identified with her partner!! She considers it a matter of pride to be associated with a person who makes her feel COMPLETE!!

Oh, this by-the-way is considered very TOUGH for men to achieve! Attention is Possessiveness!! And constant attention is ridiculous, therefore this is not acceptable!
However, possessiveness from a Man's point of view is slightly different. This would mean not to flaunt your affection such that the entire world is aware of it! Let it remain between the Man and the Woman...and not the entire world...

Now, my question is: When you are a couple, and when you both are aware of this fact; and when you do know that both of you are inseparable; what is the big deal if the next door neighbor or your professors or your colleagues or the ENTIRE WORLD knows you are together?
Isn't it a matter of pride and esteem to share this information by telling people you are in a relationship or engaged or married?

How does it matter whether people around are close friends or not and SO WHAT if they do know about your relationship? Are you going to be hunted down and kicked on the A$$???

I'm kind of saturated at this point guys!! Can't write further.....perhaps you'd want to give me your thoughts and inputs!!

5 comments:

Bg said...

I agree.MOST MEN i know crave for emotional attention and over whelming affection but pretend to dislike it :)
DONT WORRY!!!

Nithya said...

Hmmm....Aren't they COMPLEX!!!

Nivedh said...
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Rashmi said...

u got your understanding VERY wrong sweetheart!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nithya said...

I don't think so...
Perhaps you are talking about the exceptions!!!